I thought this was a very interesting and motivatonal perspective on goals and success/failure. Defiinetlly worth reading
by Alden Mills
"Limitations"
Teammates -- Today's topic is about limitations -- it's about understanding the difference between limitations that are discovered versus limitations that are self-imposed. Understanding this distinction is critically important to you - to me - to all of us!
Everyone has limitations; I know for a fact that I will not be running a 4 minute mile in my lifetime. I know for a fact, because I've tried -- vomited -- tried again, and again and again (threw-up all along way) to realize that 5min and 20 secs is the best I'm going to do…and I'm absolutely comfortable with that. I discovered my running limitations over years of trying and winning such prestigious high school cross country awards as: "Swifter than the Continental Drift Award" or "Faster than a Growing Hickory Tree Award" (actual awards I received at my cross country awards dinner in high school). I can sleep at night knowing that I'll never run a 4 min mile because I know in my heart that I have given everything that I WAS WILLING to give it to try to conquer this limitation. I discovered this limitation on my own -- I didn't take the word of my coach or my friends (they said I'd never break 6 mins).
However, there's another kind of limitation that is much -- much - more insidious, and if you're not careful and cognizant of it, you may commit one of the great travesties in life, that is, living a life with self imposed limitations. I call it "one of the great travesties" -- hell you can call it a great sin -- for no one should accept someone else's limitation as their own. Ask Lance Armstrong is he'd be happier right now if he had accepted the first doctor's recommendation to give up cycling!
I use the word "insidious" because self-imposed limitations creep up on you -- they come from credible sources such as doctors or friends or even fathers. They're not trying to intentionally sabotage your chances of success -- they are (in most cases, unless we're dealing with the jealous and insecure types) usually trying to protect you from "failing" or perhaps from injury either mentally or physically (from failing). They're passing along limitations that they've either discovered or have chosen to accept as true because they heard it from some one they trusted. The trick is to identify the self-imposed limitations from the ones you've discovered and accepted as fact.
We all have limitations, after all there's only so much time each of us has to pursue goals in our lives (and in my 4 min mile quest, I was unwilling to move to Kenya, lose a 100lbs and be chased by lions in an attempt to break my 5 min and 20 sec mile limitation!). The key is living the life we want by determining which limitations we are willing accept versus the ones we willingly commit to crushing. When you identify the limitations in your life that are holding you back from living the life you want -- well then -- CONGRATULATIONS!!!, because you my friend have just discovered your path to freedom!
What are you waiting for? Go find some limitations worth crushing! And let your teammates know the joy you've encountered from conquering them! HOOYAH!!
CHARLIE MIKE - ALDEN
Great read spitfire. I prefer the theory of setting attainable goals. Not much different. Giving a crap is the first step to self betterment.